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To ask which antidepressants have least sexual side effects

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starstar84 · 12/08/2021 13:10

I've been 2 (fluoxetine and citalopram) and both killed my sex drive/ability to orgasm (which is very important to me) and also made me fat.

Any others that are good for depression with a big smack of anxiety thrown in? I'd love to try wellbutrin but seems it's not allowed in the UK....

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Lockheart · 12/08/2021 13:13

Everyone reacts differently OP so personal anecdata is useless.

Speak to your doctor.

HeyDemonsItsYaGirl · 12/08/2021 13:14

What Lockheart said. Citalopram is fine for me. It's just trial and error.

PussGirl · 12/08/2021 13:28

They can all potentially cause problems but changing is a good idea as different ones affect different people differently

Horizon44 · 12/08/2021 13:32

I would love to know the answer too OP. I recently same off sertraline and this was a big factor.

Rinoachicken · 12/08/2021 13:33

I was on venlafaxine for 15yrs which was horrendous but the only thing that worked for me. 12months ago I switched to Vortioxitine - very very few side affects even listed and I have had none of them - has worked as well as the venlafixine for me.

sparepantsandtoothbrush · 12/08/2021 13:50

I had to stop taking venlafaxine as it caused spontaneous orgasms Blush

DazedandConcerned · 12/08/2021 13:59

Citalopram. I’m still as horny as an 18 year old 🤣🤣

starstar84 · 12/08/2021 14:02

@Rinoachicken why was venlafaxine hurrendous?

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starstar84 · 12/08/2021 14:03

@sparepantsandtoothbrush sounds amazing!

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sparepantsandtoothbrush · 12/08/2021 14:34

[quote starstar84]@sparepantsandtoothbrush sounds amazing![/quote]
😂 You'd think so wouldn't you but it was actually very awkward!

HelloMist · 18/08/2021 00:05

I'm waiting to talk to my GP because of sexual side effects too.

For me, mirtazapine (not an SSRI) didn't affect my sex life badly like citalopram and venlafaxine did. I gained weight on Mirtazapine though and not on the other 2.

I haven't found venlafaxine awful though am only on 75mg and a month in (think it's starting to help but not happy with the difficulty I now have reaching orgasm). I've had tiredness/fatigue, but altering timing of dose helped a bit. Nausea that wore off after first week. It's meant to be harder to come off, not tried yet, but I've felt ok after a delayed dose. Perhaps feel worse days later though!

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