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To think our system needs sorting?

9 replies

TheTingTing · 11/08/2021 12:54

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9882635/Evil-mothers-chilling-TikTok-videos-three-year-old-girl-just-weeks-killed-her.html#article-9882635

How did it get to this point? The neighbours say they heard quite a lot of abuse. It doesn’t state if it was reported or what involved SS had, but how the hell did it get to this point? The boyfriends father witnessed abuse. Either a) why didn’t no one report? Or b) why did not one intervene?

It’s horrific and it happens too often.

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the80sweregreat · 11/08/2021 13:55

It's so sad , I bet some people will come on to defend those two ( poor upbringing, austerity , need a second chance etc etc) but personally speaking they should be put away for life. We know it won't happen though and the taxpayer will be funding them for a long time , maybe even with new identities etc :(
It's just awful what they did to that poor child.
Some people do not deserve to have children.

ghostyslovesheets · 11/08/2021 14:02

This thread will attract two main posters - those who seek to understand in order to prevent it happening to other children and those who demand blood and accuse anyone who disagrees of defending the convicted

It’s complex and a SCR will answer most of your questions in time

Orf1abc · 11/08/2021 14:05

Priest's own mother contacted social services to voice her concerns. They did a brief visit where Priest claimed she was decorating, and that was it, nothing.

I know several social workers, they're beyond breaking point and they cannot adequately follow up every referral or concern they receive.

Austerity didn't kill that poor little girl, but had social services budgets not been cut so drastically, she may well still be alive today.

Orf1abc · 11/08/2021 14:08

It’s complex and a SCR will answer most of your questions in time

A SCR will tell us nothing that a hundred other reviews already have.

HunterHearstHelmsley · 11/08/2021 14:10

The family tried to intervene. They reported to social services. That isn't an assumption.

Social Services could, and should, have done more.

I hope little Kaylee Jade can rest in peace.

Panickingpavlova · 11/08/2021 14:13

Seeing the recent comments from the boy fiends dad disgust me.
He's claimed his son was mixed up in all this like an innocent lamb.
His son asked this girl for money to buy a car she saved up 1000! He took 400 and pocketed it.

The actions of a lamb.
He also then promptly got stopped for dangerous driving with toddler abs baby in the car and he wrote this e Vile texts and was violent.

But yes it's awful op, however from those tick too videos I'm not seeing anything concerning

Monestera · 11/08/2021 14:14

The social work system is beyond broken. Our local emergency contact line goes unmanned as they don't have the staff. Social workers are under immense pressure and unmanageable workloads. My social worker friend is dealing with reports that are 3 months old, such is the workload. In the three years she has worked for her current team she is the only remaining member of that team; there is constant churn.

sst1234 · 11/08/2021 14:15

Seek to understand = excuses

PlanDeRaccordement · 11/08/2021 14:17

Now Apples child abuse scanning technology doesn’t seem so bad does it?
Seriously platforms like TikTok need to help catch these evil people who are killing their own children before it is too late.

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