I have looked on his phone and he has taken ketamine, LsD , weed and alcohol, he has sometimes mixed . He has only taken a handful.of times, but I think weed is regular .
We have curfew of 11pm but he has slept over at friends 3 times this summer , he always tells us where he is going and who he is with . I have stopped his allowance and cut up his debit card he is furious and has punched wall
What should I do ? He is now angry and resentful, particularly about me looking on his phone ,
Was I wrong to give consequences