First World problems I know, but would like opinions on who is being U...
2 car household, one is my company car (Car A) and whilst the other is technically mine (V5C in my name, I pay for maintenance), this car, Car B, is at DH's unlimited disposal. DH WFH and will do until early 2022,he uses Car B for taking the DC to an activity one weekend day and random odd trips, covers less than 25 miles per week in average. I do the shopping and most of the DC drop offs and pick ups for childcare/school/medical appointments.
Car B is a non-premium brand batch but is pretty nippy, decent spec, fully maintained and absolutely fit for purpose.
DH has always been into his cars (think driving round Europe with friends, track days etc) and has now decided that Car B isn't good enough for him and "hates" driving it. He has taken out a significant loan and has booked a day off work to collect a car over 4 hours away, the day of which causes me some logistical issues with work, effectively doing 4 drop offs and pick ups and eldest DC might miss her after school activity which is pre paid and non refundable.
This car isn't super special BTW, I'd class it as a hot hatch.
AIBU to be extremely pissed off? Car B and the new car are going to remain on the driveway for the vast majority of the week and given I'm fairly new in my current job I'm wary of us taking on unnecessary extra debt whilst I'm on probation.
So as not to drip feed I'm also retraining in a subject where I'll be working on a self employed basis so am saving quite aggressively to leave the job sometime next year, DH is supportive of the retraining but this feels like a slap in the face.
YABU - let DH have some fun with his own car
YANBU - absolutely no need for 3 cars on the drive