To wonder if you can fall back in love

[Musingsofaninsomniac]

I’ve fallen out of love with my husband. We’ve been together 10 years. 2 DC. No abuse. No cheating. Nothing awful though I do feel neglected.

AIBU to think I can fall back in love? Is that possible?

(And any advice on how…)

Falling out of love is horrible, but it happens.
From my experience it doesn’t ever go back to great, but okay and good sometimes.
Hopefully you’ll find a way to either find the spark again, or move on, and hopefully not hate each other.
You should never feel neglected by a spouse, that’s the one person who has your back, cares, shares and protects.
Don’t deny yourself a happier life, either rekindle or scad addle
Can Chuck plenty of ideas your way, just depends on how comfortable you feel opening up.
I’ll be here, as will all the other guys

Depends if both are prepared to make necessary adjustments . I do not think it is possible if you are suffering in silence. Frank discussions are the way forward as a starting point.

I think it’s possible but you know yourself and feelings better than we do. Why not try to do things to try to be close again and see if it changes how you feel.