For reference had a really lovely albeit busy weekend, probably like many people now things are opening up. Also have a newborn (3 weeks old) and recovering from a c section
Had friends round both Friday and Saturday night so dd1(5) has had 2 very late nights (past 10am both nights) plan was for an early night tonight
Had some family round for lunch today, they ended up staying until gone 830, dd1 still up, newborn been a bit restless all day. Dh and and a few family have got through quite a lot to drink (I'm sober as we always agree that if one of us drinks the other doesn't)
This morning we had a bit of a disagreement as dd wouldn't do as I had asked which resulted in waking the baby up, I had it under control telling her off but dh still insisted on taking over telling her off.
This evening after family left we took dd upstairs for bedtime. When it came to bedtime I was trying to sort her out for bed and sort uniform out etc but dd wasn't listening and was playing around, being encouraged by dh! I let it go on for a couple of minutes as they were having fun but then snapped and told dh to stop encouraging her to not listen to me as she will be exhausted in the morning etc.
Dh has is now upset saying I have ruined the whole weekend and that how dare I try and stop him having fun with his child. He then made a point of telling dd that I was being miserable and that I don't like to have fun, which isn't the case I just wanted to try and get dd into bed at some form of decent time as I'm the one getting her up and out for school in the morning when he's at work.