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Friend stopped calling

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gg12346 · 04/07/2021 19:11

I dont know how to say it but my very dear friend stopped calling me after she came to know that I bought my dream home this year .This is so strange and hurtful to me .My hubby said this was the best thing that happened to me .She herself has three properties and to be honest she is fairly rich and not even middle class .She had a very bad relationship with her hubby eariler and so generally I got a call from her when she needed me and also she guided me sometimes in some ways .It was not so bad .But when I told her the news she was not happy infact she said she didnot got the time to look at the link I send her.Its so weird .No congratulations and nothing .
My hubby says she was not a very healthy person overall and its best that I got rid of her since she was too negative sometimes .But still I think It was a helpful friendship to me.not only to her and I feel so lonely .

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Ponoka7 · 04/07/2021 19:31

She wasn't a real friend. In terms of feeling lonely, what was she providing that your husband couldn't? The best thing is to keep yourself busy and let time pass.

TourdeTarte · 04/07/2021 19:33

It might not be about the house.

She might have other things going on in her life that you're not aware of or that she doesn't want to talk about.

When I'm having a difficult time I tend to withdraw from people.

CircleofWillis · 05/07/2021 16:22

@TourdeTarte

It might not be about the house.

She might have other things going on in her life that you're not aware of or that she doesn't want to talk about.

When I'm having a difficult time I tend to withdraw from people.

I agree with this. If she is your best friend it is worth the effort to check in on her and make sure she is OK before you cut ties.
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