Honestly, would you date yourself?

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If you met someone who was just like you (personality, lifestyle, ”flaws”, worldview, intrests etc.)
Would you date them?

No - though to be fair, I am not gay, so I would have to assume an opposite sex version of myself.

Hmmmm

Still no :-)

The thing is, you KNOW all your own failings, so there is nowhere to hide the fact that you like eating crisp sandwiches at 11:00 at night... in bed....

Yes. I am honest and loyal and I like to think I am kind and good company.

I absolutely HATE how i look though. My DH is an incredibly good looking man and I see people looking at him then looking at me and thinking WTF??!!

Not at the moment, but in the past, yes.

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No - though to be fair, I am not gay, so I would have to assume an opposite sex version of myself.

Hmmmm

Still no :-)

The thing is, you KNOW all your own failings, so there is nowhere to hide the fact that you like eating crisp sandwiches at 11:00 at night... in bed....

I don;t think eating crisp sandwiches in bed at 11pm is a failing! Sounds bloody good fun to me.

Oh yeah.

Obviously whichever sex you are atrracted to.

I'd be drawn in by my superficial charm and humour and then dump myself later on when the mood swings and manipulative tendancies became apparent.

No way. I’d have sex with me 100%, but dating me is hard work. I’m not cut out for the sheer emotional effort of supporting someone like me

Yeah. I’m quirky, funny, I like an adventure, I’m clever and I have great boobs. I’m not a fussy eater, and I’m not tight, I’m not too close to my mum.

I am a little highly strung, though, and I do like things to go according to plan. I will probably eat the last chocolate and I’m not great at saying sorry.

I’ll still say yes because I’ve never been short of dates or boyfriends, so I guess I’m pretty dateable, but they have to be pretty easygoing to temper things a bit.

No way 🤦‍♀️

No, I'm pretty hard work

No, good grief, no. I can't imagine how DH has managed to be married to me for 17 years. He is a wonderful, long-suffering man. I'm irritating, stroppy and highly opinionated. He's the only person who can put up with me. Apparently though, I have a cracking pair of tits....

of course not.
we'd kill each other

Yes. I am excellent.

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No I’d drive myself mad. I’m moody!

I think so. I’m kind, warm, loyal, funny and I’m good fun to be around. I also have a strong sense of ‘family first’, I’m not a bad cook and I really do try to look after my husband as much as I can.
On the flip side, I don’t know if I could deal with how flirty I am, I think I’d get quite jealous. Also I have chronic health problems and I’m sure they’re hard to deal with too, I suffer with pain and tiredness etc which means I can get quite grumpy and snappy when I really don’t mean to be and I do need extra physical help sometimes.
On balance tho, I’m not bad

Yep, I know my faults and my good points far outweigh my faults, I'm a frigging legend and I'd be lucky to have me 😉

No, I don't like chubby fussy eaters so I'd avoid!!

Definitely - but I'd be punching above my weight tbh

I would say I'm kind, loyal, supportive, interesting, interested, curious, not stubborn nor a pushover, adventurous and intelligent. So yes, I totally would.

remember: There can be only ONE!

Haha no! I dont think I would. DH is a good balance for me most of the time, the different mostly complement each other and similarities help us be friends too

I'd date me. I like short curvy brunettes, I like intelligent people, and I obviously already think I'm funny. I'd probably find my own neediness annoying though haha.

Yes, I'm a lovable weirdo.