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Am I cursed or doing something wrong?!

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CursedEngagement · 20/05/2021 19:58

DH and I are celebrating our fifth wedding anniversary next week - and I have just got through my FOURTH engagement ring!!
Ring 1: Stone fell out and I lost it. It wasn't a massively expensive ring, just a few hundred pounds so we cut our losses and bought a second one.
Ring 2: More expensive ring, I was mugged and it was stolen. Luckily, it was insured so we took the insurance pay out (put some more money in because we were in a better financial position) and bought the next ring.
Ring 3: In a job interview, must've been more nervous than I thought because the band snapped straight through. Went back to the store we bought it from and they repaired it.
Ring 4: Survived until last night when I was playing with my dog. Her tooth got caught in the band and as she pulled away, she bent it completely out of shape.
Am I doing something wrong or does everyone get through this many rings? Growing up, my mum wore hers every day and never replaced it - are rings worse quality or am I missing something here? Or am I just cursed?

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therocinante · 20/05/2021 20:12

What metal was it? Higher carat gold is softer and more prone to damage so that could be an issue?

No idea otherwise - I'm really heavy handed and break/chip my nails all the time but my ring has survived so far! And the stone's an emerald which I know are supposed to be more prone to damage - watch me break it now I've said this...!

ThinWomansBrain · 20/05/2021 20:15

hope that your dog is OK

CursedEngagement · 20/05/2021 20:20

@therocinante

What metal was it? Higher carat gold is softer and more prone to damage so that could be an issue?

No idea otherwise - I'm really heavy handed and break/chip my nails all the time but my ring has survived so far! And the stone's an emerald which I know are supposed to be more prone to damage - watch me break it now I've said this...!

It's 18K white gold. Maybe that's the issue? Still doesn't explain my bad luck with ring 1 and ring 2 though haha.
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CursedEngagement · 20/05/2021 20:21

@ThinWomansBrain

hope that your dog is OK
Thank you - she's fine. She has jaws like an alligator - she was just too vigorous taking a treat from my hand and one of her long teeth snagged under the ring. I'm not sure she even noticed to be honest with you.
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toffeebutterpopcorn · 20/05/2021 20:22

The universe is trying to tell you something...

Was the dogs teeth ok?

Rillington · 20/05/2021 20:24

I've never known anyone have more than one engagement ring. Mine has lasted 25 years and my DM's 50+.

GhostCurry · 20/05/2021 20:26

All the people concerned about the dog’s teeth 🙄

MrsTerryPratchett · 20/05/2021 20:26

My rings have outlasted one marriage!

Platinum is the way to go.

Aquamarine1029 · 20/05/2021 20:27

In a job interview, must've been more nervous than I thought because the band snapped straight through.

What kind of job were you interviewing for? Feeding sharks? What the hell were you doing with your hands?

CursedEngagement · 20/05/2021 20:34

@MrsTerryPratchett

My rings have outlasted one marriage!

Platinum is the way to go.

My brother had a platinum wedding band and it did outlast his marriage (they separated after four months)
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CursedEngagement · 20/05/2021 20:35

@Aquamarine1029

In a job interview, must've been more nervous than I thought because the band snapped straight through.

What kind of job were you interviewing for? Feeding sharks? What the hell were you doing with your hands?

Haha, I don't even know. I was just sat there and felt it just grind and snap in my hand. I got the job though so that's a bonus!
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MrsTerryPratchett · 20/05/2021 20:47

My brother had a platinum wedding band and it did outlast his marriage (they separated after four months)

Ouch.

EKGEMS · 20/05/2021 22:09

My diamond fell out of the prong setting whilst at a bowling alley! Found it under the bench seat!

Gingernaut · 20/05/2021 22:11

Wear it on a short chain around your neck.

Aprilwasverywet · 20/05/2021 22:14

Not sure a wedding is a good idea op... All these bad omens...

thelightishere · 20/05/2021 22:57

@Aquamarine1029

In a job interview, must've been more nervous than I thought because the band snapped straight through.

What kind of job were you interviewing for? Feeding sharks? What the hell were you doing with your hands?

GrinGrinGrin
SockQueen · 20/05/2021 23:01

I'm on my second - the first was stolen when our house was burgled. I'm not allowed to wear it at work so it was in a drawer by my bed - the bastards stole the actual drawer so not only did I have to replace all my jewellery (though that ring was the only thing of any significant monetary value) I had to get a new chest of drawers. So far, so good with no.2 though!

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