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To think this is cheeky fuckery?

20 replies

Ginmakesitallok · 13/05/2021 20:26

An acquaintance has just posted a link to a crowd fund on her Facebook page. Her children and the other children looked after by her childminder are doing a sponsored walk to raise funds to take them on outings. So basically she wants us all to pay for days out which she would otherwise have to pay for?? She's donated a tenner - very generous.

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Hesma · 13/05/2021 20:45

I hate crowdfunding for things like this.... so grabby!

ticktockriojaoclock · 13/05/2021 20:48

You could just not donate. Ta dah!

Quickchangeartiste · 13/05/2021 20:49

Unless said children are all from a deprived area or have other disadvantages in life, then this is very CF. But she’s an acquaintance, rather than a friend, so ignore

Sjdmcfeet · 13/05/2021 20:51

Yeah very cheeky indeed if it was for charity then different story
I have a FB friend who always shares link encouraging people to donate to various causes , does she not realise that we can see that she hasn't donated herself lol

Volcanoexplorer · 13/05/2021 21:06

This is very cheeky. My old childminder used to take the dc on loads of lovely outings and she never asked for any money. She just saw it as costs associated with running her business.

Ginmakesitallok · 13/05/2021 21:12

They aren't disadvantaged kids, and I haven't donated.

Pay for your own kids to go out!!

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PatsyJStone · 13/05/2021 21:15

Cheeky fuckery in the extreme!

Please give an update in a week on the success of this.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 13/05/2021 21:16

That’s hilarious!

Yes, fine, if it were a deprived area or something, but just people in regular circumstances? Cheeky fuckery!

AccidentallyOnPurpose · 13/05/2021 21:23

God loves a trier. Grin

Ofc it's stupid and ridiculous and it'll just make people roll their eyes and think she's a twat.

As a result it's doubtful it will work.

OrangeVelour · 13/05/2021 21:25

I'd have to Haha that one!

Standrewsschool · 13/05/2021 21:29

That reminds me of something I saw on tv last night. On the news, they featured a lady who sadly lost a few thousand in a Bitcoin scam. She’d given them some savings, and there was no hint that she was destitute as a result. However, at the end, she basically asked people to give her money. It was very cringe-worthy.

Wanderlust20 · 13/05/2021 21:32

Yup, CF and embarrassing. I know someone who did this to pay for her own dog's vet bills Confused.

Always found crowd funding odd unless it's for charity or a good cause.

picturesandpickles · 13/05/2021 21:37

That's amazing! They are incredibly cheeky indeed.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 13/05/2021 21:43

That's given me an idea for asking people to contribute to our 'Friday Fizz' night, there never seems seems to quite enough Prosecco...

FetchezLaVache · 13/05/2021 21:43

Someone on our local FB page started one to buy her a MacBook Pro because she fancied forging a career as a commercial artist, or something. I would be very interested to know if anyone chipped in!

GreatOak · 13/05/2021 22:22

Remember being asked to donate towards a sponsored bike ride in Peru. Supposedly for charity, but sponsors’ pledges counted towards the cost of the trip. This was in pre-crowd funding days, when people handed over cash and wrote their names on a list. So you’d like me to part-fund your cycling holiday in South America?? Hmm

Cassilis · 13/05/2021 22:31

Could you donate 1p and leave an anon comment saying this is misuse of crowdfunding?

billy1966 · 13/05/2021 22:37

That is so unbelievable it's a actually funny.

lostitall · 13/05/2021 23:27

Someone I know did one to try and fund their kids trip abroad for a sports club. Both working parents with very low outgoings (as we had been told by them )

Pinchoftums · 13/05/2021 23:32

Errmmm no. I give to lots of crowdfunding stuff if worthy. This is a huge fuck off.

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