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To feel insulted by this assumption...

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Tarabelle · 08/05/2021 07:35

Being lighthearted here... but yesterday, I was at the optician and had been talking to someone about my glasses for a while...
Then I wanted to make an appointment for my daughter and she asked her birth year. I casually said ‘7’ (you know 2007...). I admit this wasn’t crystal clear but then discover she’s put 1970 in her system! Hello!! I’m in my forties and hadn’t been born myself in 1970!
I’m laughing - but Shock I like to think I pretty much look my age... Perhaps I’m severely deluded?!
So, just wondering what unintentional (or maybe slightly intentional) insults you’ve picked up from ‘well-meaning’ folk over the years?

OP posts:
luckylucky77 · 08/05/2021 07:40

I'm sorry but I'm fully laughing that you just said 7 Grin

My guess is she put that date in to annoy you cause you annoyed her with your answer!

BrumBoo · 08/05/2021 07:40

You just said '7'? That's really weird, why not give her full date of birth Confused.

toffeebonbon · 08/05/2021 07:40

Haha she was probably really confused when you just said 7. I would have been! I wouldn't put much more thought into it honestly Grin

GeorgieTheGorgeousGoat · 08/05/2021 07:42

Surely everyone says '07' at the very least. Weird.

I wonder if she typed the 7 and it autofilled it to 70 perhaps.

bloodyhell19 · 08/05/2021 07:46

I'd consider it payback for just saying "7". Really couldn't bring yourself to at least say 07 OP? I have never ever heard of anyone just saying "7" to reference a year... Could be worse, she could have put in 7 AD.

InThisMultiverse · 08/05/2021 07:49

Maybe she meant to type 07 and entered the digits the wrong way around. That typo thing.

motherloaded · 08/05/2021 07:50

your OP is ridiculous on so many levels

Oneweekleft · 08/05/2021 07:52

Lol!

Voomster953 · 08/05/2021 07:53

Just here to agree with how weird it was to just say ‘seven’. So so so weird. Confused

Tarabelle · 08/05/2021 07:53

No... because she admitted 1970 and then laughed and said she hadn’t really been thinking when I pointed out that made me 80 or so!
7AD! That’s got me laughing...
Fully admit 7 was a bit weird. This is all lighthearted... and I’m not TOO insulted. Well just a tiny bit.

OP posts:
Shinyletsbebadguys · 08/05/2021 07:55

Grin yep I strongly suspect it was deliberate working to rule. Because you were so vague she was making a point ...I genuinely am being lighthearted because I quite like this sort of malicious compliance. Grin. To be fair to her ot worked didn't it .

GoddessKali · 08/05/2021 07:57

How random and strange of you! Confused

Morgan12 · 08/05/2021 07:58

Yeah that doesn't make you anywhere near 80.

I think you need to brush up on your numbers!

SuperSange · 08/05/2021 07:58

Being born in 1970 makes you 50/51, not 80. 🙄

Morgan12 · 08/05/2021 08:00

When were you born? Is there a typo here somewhere or am I missing something?

AmazingGrapes · 08/05/2021 08:01

Yes but it was her DDs age they were asking for. If you had a kid in 1970, you’d be somewhere between 70 and 90

mistermagpie · 08/05/2021 08:03

This is weird, even if you were born in 1970 you could easily have a child born in 2007? Is that what you're insulted by?

Just saying '7' is totally bizarre though, you've only got yourself to blame for the confusion!

brokengate · 08/05/2021 08:04

If you said 7 to me I would have been thinking age and put 2014

mistermagpie · 08/05/2021 08:04

@AmazingGrapes

Yes but it was her DDs age they were asking for. If you had a kid in 1970, you’d be somewhere between 70 and 90
Ah I see!

Still weird though.

Morgan12 · 08/05/2021 08:05

Oh sorry my bad!

MiaRoma · 08/05/2021 08:10

You were asked for her birth year and you said 7? 🤣

babycheeseplant · 08/05/2021 08:14

This one is on you OP I'm afraid!

Tarabelle · 08/05/2021 08:15

I meant 07... it came out as 7. And before I knew it, she’d tapped in 1970.
If I knew this post was going to turn into a maths challenge, I’d have thought twice. Grin

OP posts:
Checkingout811 · 08/05/2021 08:16

Hahaha brilliant! Sorry Op but you deserved that one.

ThatIsMyPotato · 08/05/2021 08:18

Yeah it's not really an insult

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