16 year 3 children fully committed to him and children stay home mum when bring up engagement always says you no there's not enough to put by of course I do and now he's got more well payed job doesn't seem to factor in its not like I'm constantly going on more when my children want no when mummy and daddy are getting married I've have told him a simple ring all ask for noting costing 1000s am I unreasonable or is not on his cards