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AIBU?

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AIBU [Insert issue here]

39 replies

Axos · 22/04/2021 17:02

[Full outline of a scenario in which I am blatantly not being unreasonable - for example, am I being unreasonable not to expect my husband to sleep with my sister, or am I being unreasonable to expect my neighbours not to urinate on my car].

AIBU?

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StillCoughingandLaughing · 22/04/2021 17:03

YABU maybe your sister is lonely!??

gwenneh · 22/04/2021 17:04

YABU. If you did things the way I suggest you do them, your life would be perfect.

LizBennet · 22/04/2021 17:05

We don’t have toilets here, we all piss on cars. YABU.

HarleyQuinn21 · 22/04/2021 17:05

YABU, where else is he suppose to wee?

OurChristmasMiracle · 22/04/2021 17:07

YABVVU they was washing your car and did your parents not teach you to share with your sister- surely you have borrowed things of hers before!!

minou123 · 22/04/2021 17:07

YABU, why won't you allow your sister and husband to urinate on your car?

Your sooooo precious Hmm

MrsTulipTattsyrup · 22/04/2021 17:07

YABU - they might have [poorly explained and clearly misunderstood mental health problem].

JorisBonson · 22/04/2021 17:10

YABU not to write a Mills and Boon type epic about your husband and sister, perhaps catching them at it in the garden or some such nonsense.

InsanityOf2020 · 22/04/2021 17:12

YABU because you forgot to say posting here for traffic as its more of a wwyd

Axos · 22/04/2021 17:12

But does anyone think my husband might be [gay] [asexual] [thinking of joining the French Foreign Legion] [Boris Johnson]?

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DinaofCloud9 · 22/04/2021 17:14

Hmm you are asking for an awful lot there.

Are you very young? Condescending head tilt.

minou123 · 22/04/2021 17:15

YABU

It's a proven fact Boris Johnson is not asexual.

Axos · 22/04/2021 17:16

I would leave him but we have a large IKEA dresser in the top bedroom and I’ve no idea how to dismantle it if we move.

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FishyFriday · 22/04/2021 17:18

YABU because there's no hand drawn diagram.

StillCoughingandLaughing · 22/04/2021 17:48

@Axos

I would leave him but we have a large IKEA dresser in the top bedroom and I’ve no idea how to dismantle it if we move.
You don’t have a dresser problem - you have a DH problem.
Danni91 · 22/04/2021 17:52

Loooool Grin

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 22/04/2021 17:52

YABU stop being so judgmental and hypersensitive . You’ve clearly got an IKEA fetish and I don’t know how your poor benighted DH puts up with you. Now go and cook him a nice dinner.

DifficultPifcultLemonDifficult · 22/04/2021 17:54

This isn't just any problem - this is an AIBU problem 🤣🤣

PomBearWithoutHerOFRS · 22/04/2021 18:42

Does the dresser have sen or dementia?

Axos · 22/04/2021 18:53

@PomBearWithoutHerOFRS

Does the dresser have sen or dementia?
Neither, but it does sag a bit in the middle.
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BuyYourOwnBBQGlenda · 22/04/2021 18:59

Biscuit Hmm

ArnoldJudasRimmer · 22/04/2021 19:10

I dismantled an Ikea dresser while 39 weeks pregnant with twins, homeschooling 3 toddlers and writing my PhD thesis, stop martyring yourself.

forinborin · 22/04/2021 19:11

I think it is a reverse.

StuntNun · 22/04/2021 19:13

YABVU. Have you taken your free half hour with a solicitor yet?

PopAyetheSailorMam · 22/04/2021 19:15

Re dresser. Quote : Neither, but it does sag a bit in the middle.

Obvs, leave the bastard !