Is it just me (quite probably) or is it really hard to get things that fit properly? I am a weird shape for sure with a different top and bottom size but everything looks appalling on me and is either swampingly huge or skin tight. Tops and dresses are a particular problem. I ordered two tops online that are practically identical in style and the same size and brand. One is like a yurt and the other flattens my considerable embonpoint so I look like a tree trunk. What is going on?