Just nervous new partner please support idk

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Hello all I split with my partner after almost 5 years of abuse and more at Christmas . I have been seeing someone since the end of Feb completely the opposite to my ex, I am due to stay at his on Saturday it would be mine and my exes five year anniversary I wasn't aware 7ntuk one of those Facebook memory updates it has made me more anxious and nervous just looking for support really xx

A virtual handhold for you!
Congratulations on getting out of a horrible situation.
I hope your new relationship works out brilliantly!

I wasn't aware that it was an anniversary til Facebook update haven't lived with him since September 2020 first time sleeping with this partner maybe l, didn't honestly know it was a anniversary at the weekend

I think you should disregard the coincidence and enjoy the time with the new guy.
If you want to sleep with him, you've every right to do so! Don't let the bad memory cast a cloud on something lovely.

Virtual handheld OP. You can select an option on memories to stop seeing memories with certain people appearing again.

What's bothering you?

Try to remember that you were strong enough to get this person out of your life. You are strong enough to start the process of healing from the hold he had over you. It might take some time but you can do it!

*handhold

The anniversary only means something in the context of the relationship, which is over. It's totally natural to feel like this.

The anniversary to get stuck in your head is the date you set yourself free. When that date comes around, celebrate it!