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Divorce help

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Em4891 · 04/04/2021 21:48

Em4891

Advice much needed please.
I’ve been married for my husband for over 10 years.
Throughout that time we have had three children and I think the world of him.

However all is not the same for my husband.
He has slept with numerous women during the course of this but, the worst has just been discovered that my husband has been having an affair with his boss for over 2 years.

He’s been leading a double life with his other partner. Told her that we are divorced but, live together for the sake of our children.

I found everything out and this was now the final straw.
I am now wanting him to get out of the house .
He simply won’t go.
The mortgage is in joint name and I run my business from home.
He has said he will buy me out and I should move out with the children and get the council to help me.

I am utterly exhausted mentally and physically.

Please if anyone can help me with legal advice etc I’d be very grateful

OP posts:
Ihavehadenoughalready · 04/04/2021 21:53

I'm so sorry. I don't have advice, but I have a strong opinion....

He effed up and he should be the one who is inconvenienced, not you.

How dare he tell YOU to move out!

Motnight · 04/04/2021 21:54

You need to pay for legal advice, Op. It's too important to scrimp on. Good luck

yeOldeTrout · 04/04/2021 21:54

My blood pressure is soaring just reading that. What an arse.

see a solicitor. File a petition for divorce. You're in a for a battle but main thing is, he has no right to make you leave and by going thru paperwork process you will probably get him out. not as soon as you wanted but still I'll wager he's the one who will go.

What an arse.

AnneLovesGilbert · 04/04/2021 21:56

Get a lawyer ASAP and take all the details of finances, mortgage, pensions etc with you.

I’m so sorry. What a shit. You’ll be okay. But prepare to fight hard.

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