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Not liking certain Facebook photos

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ohhmyown · 23/03/2021 18:27

Generally I love seeing photos of my friends or colleagues kids that I have on my FB. Mostly they are sweet posts about their birthdays, pics or something great they have done. But I have one friend and she has a baby about 6 months younger than one of my DC. She is extremely OTT and very attention seeking. Very competitive too and replies to every single comment people make. I do like her posts if there isn't something I disagree with. I would never tell someone how to parent, I'm not an expert, but if she posts something I can't condone I won't like it . For example posts on how she uses cry it out and that is why her baby sleeps 12 hours. I won't like this type of post because I think it's wrong- the CIO not the 12 hours sleep, that sounds lovely. I don't comment. She sent me a message the other day asking why I don't always like her posts. WTF who even monitors this. I just replied along the lines of "Bit busy so probably haven't seen your multiple posts a day on Facebook. Hope you are well? "

Do you monitor your friends likes ?

OP posts:
Shoxfordian · 23/03/2021 18:42

No I don’t but maybe you should tell her you don’t like it because you don’t agree

Feelinglow8736 · 23/03/2021 18:44

She messaged to ask why you didn't like her posts? Thats well sad!!

LegendDairy · 23/03/2021 18:46

I don't monitor my friends at all.

Rootsmanouvre · 23/03/2021 18:48

She is clearly mad.

Dressinggownchic · 23/03/2021 18:50

That’s odd!

Coriandersucks · 23/03/2021 18:50

I like the posts I like. Never occurs to me to like a post just because a friend posted it. I doubt she keeps tabs on it op so I wouldn’t worry.

Coriandersucks · 23/03/2021 18:51

Oh I missed the last bit! She’s odd.

B33Fr33 · 23/03/2021 18:52

She sounds desperately lonely if she has time to monitor and respond to every message. She doesn't sound ok.

Pinksatin · 23/03/2021 18:53

This is why social media sucks. People get so caught up in likes. But also I’ve been there where people haven’t like my photos but they have of others . It can be hurtful. I think we should just get rid of it all together 😂

AppaTheSixLeggedFlyingBison · 23/03/2021 19:00

She sounds a bit intense. I don't post on FB but do on Instagram and most definitely do not check who has and hasn't liked something. How bizarre

Tal45 · 23/03/2021 19:12

Very desperate and bizarre. Who does that?

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