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AIBU?

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Always be yourself

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hippychick11 · 15/03/2021 13:22

This is not really an aibu as such, just thought more people would see it here. I grew up in a pretty catholic community knowing from a young age I was gay. For years I was deeply unhappy having relationships with the opposite sex because i thought that's what i was meant to do. It took me a long time to accept myself for who I am and though I still consider myself a work in progress, I am feeling a lot happier and freer now.

I guess my message is that we are all amazing and worthy no matter our age, looks, sexual orientation, whether we have children or not etc. Everyone has value and a place in the world. I don't post this to sound cheesy (sorry if I do) but rather to hopefully empower people and to say that YOU are wonderful whoèver you are Flowers

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B33Fr33 · 15/03/2021 13:24
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Sparklesocks · 15/03/2021 13:30

I’m really pleased you’ve been able to live your authentic self and no longer pursue relationships with people you aren’t attracted to just because you think you should. It can be really difficult to unpick that if you come from a strict religious background, and allow yourself to love who you love. Best of luck with it all.

tellmewhentheLangshiplandscoz · 15/03/2021 13:37

Agree wholeheartedly OP.

I'm glad your living life to the full (well, a lockdown version atm! Grin) now Thanks

imyournextdoorneighbour · 15/03/2021 13:45

I totally agree. I was in a relationship with a guy who was only with me because I turned myself into what he wanted. When I ended it I swore never again. I then met my now DH and he loves me warts an' all, because from the very start he knew exactly what he was getting. It's a shame that so many people lives their lives being what they think society or another person thinks they should. Thanks

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