To spend savings on implants

[Purple28369]

I have been considering breast implants for years, I breastfed and only produced milk on one side, my breasts are very lopsided and the one which didnt produce milk looks just like the images I’ve seen for ‘tuberous’ breasts. There is no volume at all, it’s a really strange odd shape. There are several cup sizes difference between each side, I feel really unconfident in a lot of clothes and wirh new partners

Wibu to spend a big chunk of my savings on getting an enlargement? I just want to look normal, but as a single parent I feel guilty when I know the money could go toward something else, like a holiday or stuff for the kids.

If it will vastly improve your self confidence and your life, go for it! As long as your dc aren't actually going without obviously, you can save up again for holidays etc

Im not one for plastic surgery etc. But in this case. Yes i would. If you are not happy it will effect your children. If you have managed to save and are still saving just carry on as you are. They wont remember holidays too much anyway especially when small but they will remember an unhappy mummy xx

Yes I would in your case. Bare in mind you will have to have them replaced at some point in your life.

no-one else will even notice, but if it bothers you, you have the money, you understand the risks and pain and still want to go for it - then that is one of the things you save up for.

Yes OP, in your case I wouldn't hesitate.
You have worked for those savings its not as if you are going in to debt.

Actually, scratch that. Who cares if your boobs were on finance?

Go for it, enjoy your new shape!

OP if it's very extreme you may be able to get it on nhs. Work mate had a B cup one side and an E/F on the other. She got them done on nhs.

It's your money. But it's really empowering to bring yourself round to thinking that your value far exceeds how you look naked and whether your body turns a man on x

And I say that as someone who has shit tits!