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Husband comes to bed late every night

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SantaMonicaPier · 20/02/2021 08:31

It's been especially late this week as he's been off work but it's usual for him to come to bed at or after 12.30am every night. He's either up watching TV or more usually falls asleep on the sofa. I try to be asleep by 11pm latest and every night without fail he wakes me up. He tries to be quiet but even though I'm not not particularly light sleeper I'm then awake for 20 minutes and it's especially hard when I'm in a deep sleep cycle. It's affecting my mood as I'm so tired most days and I've suggested I start to sleep in my study as I have a futon in there. He insists it's not necessary and I know I'd end up resenting him. He's not offered to sleep in my study instead. Anyone else experienced this?

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idontlikealdi · 20/02/2021 09:52

You can't dictate his bedtime. My bedtime has gone to shit because of all the inactivity.

We sleep separately a couple of nights a week, it helps so much I'm considering moving it to full time.

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