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Should I tell him or keep quiet?

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Stinkyfish12 · 14/02/2021 15:00

My guy friend is coming round tonight and staying over - we bubbled. We share same bed for cuddles and have hooked up a few times. However I have changed birth control and have had bleeding. It’s light, but bring going on for weeks. He knows this snd us understanding, so no pressure. I just really want to take it forward, but nervous of potential mess.

We have previously hooked up under these circumstances and he wasn’t bothered. Has issues with the coil previously. Once it was a bit heavier than expected and he did comment and stop. But light bleeding he didn't notice.

Would it be inappropriate to make a move? Would a guy be bothered? He knows my issues.

OP posts:
LouiseTrees · 14/02/2021 15:19

Well your birth control might be ineffective so you should definitely mention at least so he can arrange appropriate protection ( condoms).

Pipandmum · 14/02/2021 15:21

Tell him.

Bluntness100 · 14/02/2021 15:22

Well unless he likes that kinda surprise I’d tell him..

Surlyburd · 14/02/2021 15:28

Tell him, dont worry.

Createsuser · 14/02/2021 15:44

With the name stinky fish are you sure that’s all you need to tell him?

Just teasing sorry!Grin

Winditbackagain · 14/02/2021 16:56

Depends if it's blood or just pinkish mucus. If you are bleeding then tell him if it's not then it won't be messy.

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