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To not feel any different ?

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bnbiu · 10/02/2021 12:48

I saw someone say on Instagram " the day you get your positive pregnancy test your world changes " .

I have just found out I am pregnant and feel no different to be honest. I can't yet believe it until I have had a scan .

Baby was planned but has come a lot sooner than we expected, we already have a 2 year old . I don't feel different really and I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else didn't feel as much excitement the 2nd time round ?

Don't get me wrong I am chuffed to bits but can't see me rushing out buying clothes for baby as soon as iv peed on the stick ( which is the kind of thing I did with baby number 1)

OP posts:
Pinkblueberry · 10/02/2021 12:52

YANBU. I felt a bit meh with my first - I don’t think I really believed it until he was born Grin

Constantfacepalm · 10/02/2021 12:54

Ah totally the same here. Of course nothing changes, you are the same person and you still have to feed and entertain your two year old. Mine was 16 months when I found out and I thought ah that's nice...now I will put everything pregnancy-wise on the back burner until maybe month 6 or something (buying clothes, worrying about the two kids interacting etc)

Congratulations!

dontlikebeards · 10/02/2021 12:55

Instagram is full of people talking bollocks about how perfect people should react. Ignore it! You are completely normal.

TheSoapyFrog · 10/02/2021 13:08

My entire life changed as soon as I saw a positive test and nothing about it has been the same since.

ginnyyu · 10/02/2021 13:10

@TheSoapyFrog yes I do feel my life has completely changed since having my 2nd year old. With knowing I am pregnant again though I feel the same

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