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To wonder what all the walkers would usually be doing

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CloseSchoolsProtecttheNHS · 17/01/2021 02:13

I live in a small village near a lovely green open space for walks. I walk every single day and have done since I moved here many years ago. It's always been very quiet - many, many times I've been the only person out and have walked for an hour+ and not seen a soul.

Since Covid - and particularly since the summer - it's been mobbed! I'm dodging people constantly when out walking and although the size of the space means I can keep 2 metres away, I now often have groups of people behind, in front and to the sides of me which makes me a bit uncomfortable. Most are considerate but some are arseholes that want to brush past you so you have to be aware and it's a lot less relaxing. I'm pretty sure that they are local people as it's not a 'day out' place or anywhere people would know about let alone go to, and it's nice that more local people are out walking but... why have they all just discovered walking? It's not like it was a closely guarded secret before and we are quite rural. What would they normally be doing (for example today on a Saturday afternoon) that they now can't do that leaves walking as their only option??

(Yes I do kind of wish they'd bugger off and yes IABU for that as I don't own this piece of land! But mostly I'm just really perplexed as to why so many people are now out walking!)

OP posts:
Sorka · 17/01/2021 02:32

Going to the pub. Seeing friends. Being on holiday. Any of the many activities that make life enjoyable that are prohibited right now, meaning that walking is all that’s left.

Also gyms are shut. I mention this separately because it’s not enjoyable.

partyatthepalace · 17/01/2021 02:32

Um well they are working from home during the week, and during the weekends they are at home rather than going shopping, going to friends, playing sport etc

Did you really not know the answer Op?

Changechangychange · 17/01/2021 02:35

I would be swimming, going to the gym, going to my dance class or my pilates class, cycling over to meet people in the pub, or driving further away to go for a run or walk in the countryside.

Instead I am walking round and round my local park 🤷‍♀️

katy1213 · 17/01/2021 02:36

I'd much sooner be sitting in the dark in a cinema than walking - so I'll be happy to vacate open spaces as soon as there's something else to do.

Iminaglasscaseofemotion · 17/01/2021 02:39

Going to the pictures, the pub, swimming, kids clubs, visiting family and friends. The list of things they usually would be doing could be endless, but there's absolutely fuck allbto do so people want to get out and do the onmy thing they are allowed to do together as a family that's not confined to their house. Surely you can work that one out for yourself.

MiddleClassMother · 17/01/2021 02:40

@Sorka

Going to the pub. Seeing friends. Being on holiday. Any of the many activities that make life enjoyable that are prohibited right now, meaning that walking is all that’s left.

Also gyms are shut. I mention this separately because it’s not enjoyable.

This has made my night! Gyms certainly aren't a nice place to go
Terracottasaur · 17/01/2021 04:13

The list of activities Covid has shit down is endless. Visiting people, the cinema, pubs, shopping, restaurants, road trips, gyms, cafes, soft play, toddler groups, museums, etc...

socketpocket · 17/01/2021 04:15

I swim every day but haven't been able to so I walk.

BritWifeinUSA · 17/01/2021 04:15

These are people who, during the week, would normally have walked to work, or walked to and from a bus stop or train station to get to work, then walk around a bit during the day at work, depending on the job. Perhaps a walk at lunchtime. If they are working from home it’s hard to get as much movement into the day. Plus cabin fever sets in. So over the weekends they are making up for it.

Hueandcry · 17/01/2021 04:26

I get you OP. I walk several times a day with my dog, usually never see a soul. Now the world & his wife are out there getting in my way. What annoys me most is none of them have any manners, I am always the one to cross the road or walk in the road to avoid them Angry

BarbaraofSeville · 17/01/2021 04:45

A lot of people used to wander around retail parks and shopping centres, as well as all the other things mentioned, but they're mostly closed too.

I'm a regular walker who also joked last summer that I wished all the people filling up the quiet open spaces would piss off back to the shopping centres (I was having to queue to get out of the woods FFS), but the reality is that Going For A Walk and Queuing At The Supermarket are pretty much the only things anyone is able to do outside the house right now.

I have noticed it's got busier again after quieting off in the autumn, but that's probably due to the days starting to get a bit longer and new year resolutions but gyms closed factor.

FangsForTheMemory · 17/01/2021 05:00

I would be using public transport to go shopping or visit places. Instead I’m restricted to walking about near where I live

leafygarden42 · 17/01/2021 06:14

@Hueandcry

yes yes to what you said.

Norwayreally · 17/01/2021 06:18

Pub/coffee shop/restaurant, seeing friends and relatives, cinema, theatre, bowling, swimming, indoor exercise such as gym, outdoor team sports, shopping for ‘non essentials’, softplay.

The list could go on but it’s not difficult to understand why people are out walking more now- it’s literally all we’re permitted to do.

Changemaname1 · 17/01/2021 06:40

Gee I just can’t Possibly think what could have happened to mean that people’s only real option for recreation outside of the home is to go for a walk

Hmmmm

Nope am as stumped as you op Hmm

yearinyearout · 17/01/2021 06:47

Well I go walking all the time but my friends who don't would be meeting other friends to go shopping, out for lunch, spending the afternoon watching sport in the pub, visiting family etc. All of which they can't do.

Oysterbabe · 17/01/2021 06:51

Quite often on a Saturday we'd dump the kids on MIL, go out for lunch and to the cinema. Can't do any of that now so another fucking walk it is.

MsConstrue · 17/01/2021 06:56

You've seriously asked why everyone has just discovered walking? why do you think OP?

I'm so fed up with walking, but there's nothing else to do. My local park is always rammed too - I'm sure everyone would rather be at the pub/cinema/on holiday/at their mum's/shopping etc.

Rover83 · 17/01/2021 06:58

What were we doing on weekends before lockdown; kids parties, soft play, dance/swimming/football clubs, shopping, visiting friends, going to the pub, restaurants, visiting family.

We go for a walk every day as it breaks the monotony of being stuck home all the time

InvincibleInvisibility · 17/01/2021 06:58

As PP have said, walking replaces:
Other sporting activities
Social meetups
Shopping
Pretty much anything that gets you out of the house

I used to walk loads for my commute. WFH has stopped that.

Offskki · 17/01/2021 06:58

I’m really irritated by your pretend ignorance.

FuckOffBorisYouTwat · 17/01/2021 06:58

I walk my dogs for a couple of hours a day and have done for years. People are so pleased that they have discovered all the local routes l am not.
I'm glad people are out and Bout getting exercise. I feel very sorry for everyone who is used to going to gyms and playing sport and it's all stopped (I miss my team so much ). But still cannot wait until they all fuck off back to the shopping centres etc and leave me with my peaceful walk. I've taken to walking in the rain as they are very fair weathered.

JabbyMcJabface · 17/01/2021 07:00

There is literally nothing else to do.

As a runner I agree it’s annoying to have so many people around. But I don’t blame them at all.

HercwasanEnemyofEducation · 17/01/2021 07:01

I'm just really perplexed as to why so many people are now out walking!

Did you sleep through the last 9 months of pandemic?

Most of the alternative activities are currently closed.

PollyPorcupine · 17/01/2021 07:05

We have always gone for lots of walks at weekends but we usually go to National Trust properties (we have 20 within 30 miles of us). Now we aren't allowed to leave our local area and none of the NT parks are right on our doorstep. The only well-known places to walk in our town are absolutely heaving so we've been searching out quieter routes, which probably annoys the dog walkers who use them regularly.