When I first met DH I was really fit and had been for years beforehand.
I kept carving out time for exercise throughout our marriage even when we had our first DC. DH has never really put keeping fit anywhere on his priority list. For the last 2 years of being busy with DD and both having very little time, I just followed suit and now haven’t really exercised for all this time.
I always used to invite friends around but because DH doesn’t do this, I have slowly stopped.
Do we just end up mirroring our partners as time goes on?