I like a rough plan on a weekend. Nothing major, breakfast, walk, in normal times meet up with friends etc.
Husband likes to freewheel....and will sometimes announce he’s doing something that if I’d known he was doing it I’d have sorted something else out.
I think he doesn’t like to plan as he’d rather keep the option of weekend morning sex. But I wake up first and don’t want to lie about and wait for him to stop snoring.
AIBU to like a plan?