Am i being sensitive

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Bf has been making comments about my weight ALOT lately, or for example someone on telly said how his gf was a lot smaller when they first met and my bf laughed his ass off as if it was relatable. And today we had some snacks at like 3pm and now im hungry and he's been like "lets just have pudding as we at already"

So now i feel like a fat cow for wanting dinner.

Im here starving and kindof annoyed about it.

Its been the numerous comments and probably about 3 weight related comments today that has sparked it

Why are you wasting your time with him? Get rid.

Ate already*

Have you gained weight since you met? He's being very insensitive and you shouldn't be made to feel like that. I have gained 3 stone since I met my DH 14 years ago and having 2 children and I think he probably would like it if I lost a bit of weight mainly because he knows it would make me more confident and happy but he certainly never suggests that I do and he still buys me treats off his own back.

Have you spoken to him about it? Something along the lines of you keep making comments about my weight/me eating - do you have something you want to say?

You shouldn’t let your partner dictate your eating regardless.

Do not let anyone control your eating...it’s not a good sign op.