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To be angry!!

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inthedarkxx · 20/12/2020 10:46

This happened a few days ago but it's been playing on my mind.

Sent my kids to their dad, my toddler 16 month old had her clothes and nappy changed by me just before he left with them. About 14:30 and then when he brought her back at 8:30pm her nappy was full of wee, she'd also done a poo as well and had been left like that. I decided to check her bag and none of the nappies I'd sent her in had been used so she hadn't been changed in all this time!!! He said apparently things got 'too busy'
How can you be too busy to a basics parenting necessity?
Last week she had a bruise on her head, my 14 year old said was planning and fell and banged in a glass table. I know kids have accidents but the nappy thing, just making me worry sending her again!

On Tuesday he wants to take all out 6 children with his partner and her 3 children ( one is my exes) on a shopping trip! At this busy time all with Covid! I'm worried my toddler and my son will not be watched and considering he's not changed her nappy for hours the same will happen on Tuesday. I'm annoyed at how careless and selfish he is!!

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BrumBoo · 20/12/2020 10:51

How many threads are you going to start about your ex? Either you trust him to take care of your (plural) children, or not. Though the nappy thing is unacceptable, and I would have read him the riot act. I'd be telling him that if they baby develops nappy rash, you'll be explaining to the GP and whoever else that its due to his neglect.

Waveysnail · 20/12/2020 10:52

How old are the children?

AnneLovesGilbert · 20/12/2020 10:53

Is this the ex you were planning to give your many DC to full time?

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