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To see him for Christmas or not?

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LemonSherbetFancy · 18/12/2020 17:28

We live apart, couple of hours away from each other.
This lockdown we have stayed apart but had it decided that I would go back to DP's for the 5 day relaxation. Now he is saying that maybe it isn't a good idea as we both have kids and all of them have been mixing a lot in school/ with others etc. What would you do. I really don't want to be apart from him. I know we are luckier than most as this is the only bad thing that has really happened during this year but it's so very difficult being apart in a way that many could not truly understand.

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LemonSherbetFancy · 18/12/2020 17:29

Bad thing that has happened to us I mean. Obviously not generally.

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Scaredykittycat · 18/12/2020 17:31

So you haven’t seen him since March? And he still doesn’t want to see you?

Sounds dodgy to me.

LemonSherbetFancy · 18/12/2020 17:32

No, October was the last time.

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Scaredykittycat · 18/12/2020 17:59

If he doesn’t want to risk his health you should respect that. However if you’re both not worried about yourselves then that’s your decision to make.

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