Probably not much of an AIBU but posting for traffic. My partner is self employed. I work for the government. I have a few pensions plus a CS pension. He has an old one but doesn't pay into it. What will happen when he retires? Will he get a pension? I'm starting to worry that only I will and I'm going to end up financially supporting us both which as our finances are separate isn't what I want to do. We aren't married and nor are we planning to either. So AIBU to ask him to sort out a private pension?