you will have to forgive me. i am not so sure where i can do this. i have been a big lurker for a long time. i understand it's a mums group but i have watched so many posts where some great advice posts have come from. i may not be a parent but maybe one in the future so it is great to be a part of something that may help. but i also enjoy the group for it's support to all. hope that is a starting point