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To ask how you would describe this person?

51 replies

Fallenfromgrace · 01/12/2020 17:33

1.Very successful in the workplace but several failed marriages/falls out with people quite regularly.
2.Always thinks she is right

  1. Very opinionated.
  2. Very dependent on others for emotional support and does not like being alone.
  3. Very forgetful especially with basic tasks. For example, if someone needs a written response to a question, she will take weeks to reply.
  4. Fails to see things from others perspectives a lot of the time and is frequently confused when people get angry with them.
  5. Always has to be out and doing things and is very much the life and soul of the party.
  6. Lacks boundaries and will tell even strangers or inappropriate people such as their employees about their personal issues.
  7. Likes validation from others when they get accused of doing something wrong. Will 'poll' people to get their views.
10. Absolutely heartbroken and livid when she got cheated on but left out the part when she cheated on her 2 previous partners. One rule for everyone else and how they should behave and one for her.
OP posts:
niceupthedance · 01/12/2020 17:41

Someone you don't like ?

NameChange84 · 01/12/2020 17:44

Someone you started a thread to bitch about?

WorraLiberty · 01/12/2020 17:44

Unable to defend themselves against a character assassination?

Sonders · 01/12/2020 17:45

I'd describing that person as "someone with an acquaintance who starts cryptic threads on Mumsnet"

ApolloandDaphne · 01/12/2020 17:45

My friends sister is like that. I would describe her as self-centred and selfish.

Ffsnosexallowed · 01/12/2020 17:45

Pain in the arse?

FourTeaFallOut · 01/12/2020 17:45

Is it your boss?

ApolloandDaphne · 01/12/2020 17:45

With an over inflated sense of entitlement.

Sittingonthefence83 · 01/12/2020 17:46

A twat?

Lalaloveyou2020 · 01/12/2020 17:46

Do you want me to say she's a narcissist? She is. You also seem to have some issues, probably with saying no/people pleasing, which is why you're still in her circle even though you don't like her.

WorraLiberty · 01/12/2020 17:48

This is like the text version of a photo thread, where someone puts up a friend's/family member's pic and invites everyone to comment on it.

ViciousJackdaw · 01/12/2020 18:03

Is she the sort of person who posts threads supposedly about other people but they are actually about herself?

WorraLiberty · 01/12/2020 18:05

Just realised this OP has form for starting threads and not coming back

Fudgsicles · 01/12/2020 18:07

She's a human. HTH.

TheSunshineTrain · 01/12/2020 18:10

This is sort of vile of you OP. If you think this of this person you should tell them, not risk defamation on the internet and encourage people to be rude about her.

Shame on you, YOU don’t seem like a nice person either.

VodselForDinner · 01/12/2020 18:22

She sounds like someone who needs to watch her back when it comes to her friends or colleagues.

Whenwillow · 01/12/2020 18:24

Is this you, OP?

hadesinahalfahell · 01/12/2020 18:30

Ah, sadly this sounds a bit like me. I think my ADHD explains some of these behaviours though.

kennelmaid · 01/12/2020 18:30

I don't know what to call her, but I'd call you vindictive and not someone I'd like to work with.

EveryDayIsADuvetDay · 01/12/2020 18:33

is this a reverse?

well said @kennelmaid

Whenwillow · 01/12/2020 18:41

It does sound like this person (you?) might have untreated adhd.

Bluntness100 · 01/12/2020 18:43

Is this you or someone you dislike op?

Bluntness100 · 01/12/2020 18:45

Actually I doubt it’s the op, just someone she actively dislikes and envies so is hoping we will jump on and slag her off.

How would you describe someone who goes on line to bitch and paint a character assassination about a woman they don’t like op...

Sparklesocks · 01/12/2020 18:45

She sounds quite insecure.

Did you create this thread just to cryptically slag someone off? If so, I can tell you how I’d describe that..

BunnyMacDougal · 01/12/2020 23:30

She sounds quite insecure

I wonder why!

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