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To ask for advice re Christmas present etiquette with teachers

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Toomuchtooyoung01 · 12/11/2020 15:11

DD has recently began attending a really lovely little preschool. She is my eldest child so I have no experience of thr etiquette around Christmas present buying for teachers.
I was thinking a big tub of biscuits/chocolates for the (small) team, and maybe a poinsettia etc for her key worker and favourite teachers? Is this ok?!
Or do you think more chocolate or alcohol would be better? Or something completely different?

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Fluffybutter · 12/11/2020 15:13

Our school have said no cards or gifts this year so I wouldn’t buy anything just yet as you could find they have the same stance .
In normal times you can’t go wrong with tins of stuff they can share but maybe not the plants as it’s just something extra to look after !

VinylDetective · 12/11/2020 15:14

Don’t give them anything you’ve made yourself - apparently it gives them a conniption!

flaviaritt · 12/11/2020 15:20

I’d give vouchers, myself.

DickBastardly · 12/11/2020 15:23

I wouldn’t go with alcohol as a lot of people don’t drink, or at least don’t drink “that” so unless you know what they like and don’t, it’s a minefield. I personally really dislike chocolate as I hate the taste and texture so although it’s seen as a safe go-to gift, I couldn’t think of anything worse. Amazon voucher? You’d be putting the decision in their hands.

SionnachRua · 12/11/2020 15:25

They might not be allowed to share treats this year due to Covid so I wouldn't go down the 'big box of chocolates' road. In normal times it's a good call.

Don't think I'd do a plant personally. Voucher, bunch of flowers, thermos etc instead. And a heartfelt card/letter (or email cc'ing the boss) is best of all.

flaviaritt · 12/11/2020 15:29

If it has to be a gift I’d probably like something like: a nice candle (not Yankee!); a nice hot chocolate kit; a bag of Whittard’s tea; a Costa gift card.

Something like that.

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