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To miss someone that supported me years ago

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Coldnights · 28/09/2020 22:21

I had mental health in my late teens and was supported by a member of staff at college during this time. I’m now in my mid 20.s and still think about this person. I know it probably sounds odd but they helped me through a difficult time.

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Coldnights · 28/09/2020 22:22

Meant to say mental health problems

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Coldnights · 29/09/2020 09:44

Bumping if any has any advIce

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SignOnTheWindow · 29/09/2020 09:49

Are they still working at the college? If so, perhaps you could send them a card saying how much you appreciated their support?

Hadalifeonce · 29/09/2020 09:53

I second contacting them, if possible, and thanking them for their support in the past.
They may well be wondering what happened to you.

Coldnights · 29/09/2020 09:57

Thank you for replying unfortunately he doesn’t work there anymore as far as I can see.

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CutToChase · 29/09/2020 10:31

Try LinkedIn?

GetUpAgain · 29/09/2020 10:39

How is your mental health now? It is perfectly normal to think back from time to time, I sometimes wonder how the student doctor is that helped at my sons terrible birth.

I wouldn't get in touch though, the relationship was doctor/patient and they did what they were there to do. They were much more significant to me than I was to them and I would hate it if they didn't remember me...

Better to look forward than back. Or better still, be in the present.

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