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birthday Invite !

11 replies

gg1234 · 22/02/2020 11:56

Hi

I had been invited to a birthday party and it would sound really silly about me discussing it on here with my age :) , Now she is a good frd but she hasnt send me the invite on phone where to go etc and she invited me saying you are invited and I will be sending you the thig on your whatsapp , IT never came , I reminded her 2 days back :) ,But not

SEND again . its silly to aska again and again for me .What should you have done ?

GG

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whitesoxx · 22/02/2020 12:02

When's her birthday?

gg1234 · 22/02/2020 12:07

its tomorrow , its not his but her kids birthday and I am seriously upset with her behaviour , Can sense she is not serious enough to send me even an invite

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gg1234 · 22/02/2020 12:08

our kids are of same age and we are like really good frds

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whitesoxx · 22/02/2020 12:08

Personally I'd leave it now. Wouldn't fancy a kids birthday party on a Sunday anyway!!

Lucky escape.

gg1234 · 22/02/2020 12:15

thanks Whitesoxx I am in same shoes.Was just wondering if others have any other suggestions

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Stompythedinosaur · 22/02/2020 12:15

If she's told you you are welcome and the details then I'd consider that an invite.

whitesoxx · 22/02/2020 12:17

She hasn't given the details

I'd leave it but then if you really do want to go you could ask one more time

Itwasntme1 · 22/02/2020 12:38

So she hasn’t followed up? I assume your children are invited to her children’s party - is that it?

I don’t think you are going. For whatever reason she regrets the invitation and isn’t giving you the details.

She doesn’t sound like a good friend.

WinterCat · 22/02/2020 12:40

I wouldn’t ask again and enjoy a peaceful Sunday doing what I wanted instead of being surrounded by screaming children.

hopeishere · 22/02/2020 12:44

Do you have children?

Maybe she doesn't want to have you hanging about if she's trying to wrangle a kids party?

GiveMeAllTheGin8 · 22/02/2020 12:49

Just text her again , do your children know about it?

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