to think my DP should

[naturalblonde]

have an opinion on whether we have a 2nd baby andnot just say 'it's your decision'???

YANBU!

yanbu!!!

Further questions with the same ' it's your decision' answer include:

Should I put DD in nursery one morning a week?

Should I quit my part time job and stayhome with DD full time?

Do you think we should buy a new car?

What do you want to do for DD's 1st birthday?

And the classic?He got in from work, actually noticed I was dressed up to go out (I'd told him at least 6 times that I was out that night) and says - Oh - are you going out? Well who's baby sitting?

Hmm, not sure if he meant for DD or for him.

YANBU, but I must admit, I would love the power to make all those decisions myself.
Question is.. does he complain about your decisions after you've made them? if not, enjoy the autonomy.