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Ghosting / stood up

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Champagnetaste · 17/02/2020 11:11

My best friend was supposed to meet up with a guy she has been chatting to online last night. They had been chatting on the Saturday night and all seemed ok. She sent him a message yesterday about 3/4pm he hasn’t responded and doesn’t look as if it’s been read or been on line since. In fact she can’t see when he was last active which makes me think he’s ‘ignoring’ her - Facebook messenger

Am I being unreasonable to think he has ghosted her and tell her to move on. She’s currently obsessing that something has happened and keeps checking if he has been online or read her message.

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MrsTWH · 17/02/2020 11:18

She’s been blocked/ghosted. Onwards and upwards!

ashmts · 17/02/2020 11:18

Something similar happened to my friend. Chatting for a couple of weeks, all going well, then he never read her message the night before they were due to meet. She never heard from him again. She saw him on Tinder a week later with a new account. That message on Whatsapp is still unread, he must have deleted her. Your poor friend, she'll probably never really know why but this does happen. No idea what they're thinking. Why bother leading someone on?

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