Exh completely unreliable and fairly absent in our dcs lives. Pays csm amount maintenance but also agreed at time of split to contribute to school residential trips.
So far he hasn't. I can only work pt as have the children. He has moved 4 hours away with his gf. He works full time earns 40k plus.
So far I've had to pay of the dc miss out. He just says I cannot afford it. I already give you X amount each month. He goes abroad on holiday with his gf twice a year at least. My parents helped me out to allow dc to go previously.
This year dd has a trip 600 quid, other dd has one 300.
Aibu to expect him to pay at least half of the 600 quid one..No way I can afford it on my own. Dd would be the only girl in her reg class not going. Or do some people think maintenance should be all he pays.