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Criminal Injuries Compensation Authority (CICA)

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FloofenHoofen · 29/01/2020 10:35

I recently made a claim for historic sexual child abuse which my father committed, he has since been sentenced.

I realised after speaking to CICA on many occasions that so far every person I've spoke to, they have all been men. Even the decision maker I spoke to, was male.
Does anybody know why the staff are mostly male? Has anybody ever spoken to a female?

I find it really uncomfortable discussing what happened with another man on the phone and because of the nature of it when I spoke to the decision maker I did end up having a mini breakdown and he sounded very uncomfortable which is understandable - I am just a stranger to him, but it really felt like he couldn't empathise at all. He tried to get me off the phone very quickly.

What are other people's experiences?

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FloofenHoofen · 29/01/2020 10:39

I'm sorry to put it in AIBU as well, I realise it's not the best place to put it but felt like there was more traffic here.

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Nomorelaundry · 29/01/2020 11:45

So sorry you've been through this OP. And I'm sorry I can't help but hopefully we can bump this so somebody can

WarrenNicole · 29/01/2020 12:11

Have you asked specifically to speak to a female employee?

Sexnotgender · 29/01/2020 12:13

I’m sorry that sounds very difficult. I agree with the previous poster that you should try asking for a female.

FloofenHoofen · 29/01/2020 12:27

I haven't @WarrenNicole. I suppose that is something I could ask next time.

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Justcallmebebes · 29/01/2020 12:31

Hi. I work in law and deal with the CICA regularly. They do have plenty of female case workers so it may be worth you asking to be assigned a female case worker. Whether they will accommodate that though, I'm not sure. Good luck

FloofenHoofen · 29/01/2020 13:46

@Justcallmebebes thank you. I wasn't sure if I could ask, I was just told it gets assigned to someone and that's it.
It doesn't feel like I have much control over who is dealing with my case.

It's already with a caseworker now but no idea who that is, I had to ring to find out and again spoke to another male.

This will be the last time they look at my case now as I have already declined their award and asked for a review - the previous decision maker missed out key information and then claimed it wasn't in my video interview when it was, cue me having a mini breakdown.
I feel like I'm fighting for it to be acknowledged all over again even when he's been sentenced, it's mad!

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