Am I being unreasonable?
I recently checked out of health visitor services due to my sons health visitor being a CF. She barged into my home and walked around (uninvited) my house saying my children’s toys were a health hazard. 
(They weren’t in the way and were in toy boxes.) I had to tell her to please go downstairs and stop being nosy!
Second strike was when she rang me and threatened to report me to social services for my sons MMR booster being a month late.
I opted out and put a complaint in against her. They’ve now sent me a 4 year check with the same health visitor can I refuse? He attends nursery and they have no concerns what so ever, he’s a little lazy at times with toileting (what 4 year old isn’t though!) and is actually ahead of his class academically. Am I being unreasonable to refuse the check?
I never had a 4 year old check with my eldest.