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To be cross with DH over this

3 replies

Orangeblossom78 · 21/01/2020 16:56

Dh had a day off today and asked if I wanted to meet up after my gym class at a cafe, I said yes and went to meet him.

Turns out the cafe had a problem - no hot drinks. He went to order me a lunch sandwich but as he wanted a hot drink and a cake, he didn't order, came to sit down grumpily about this.

I said well we could have gone somewhere else, but he had ordered mine now so i went to get some water to have with it. He said he would maybe go pick up the car then form a service, and I mentioned, well yes if you are going to just be grumpy maybe that is for the best.

Ended up sitting alone with my sandwich and the paper! I'm a bit fed up. AIBU to be grumpy over this?

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Newbie1999 · 21/01/2020 16:58

He could have sat with you but meh, I wouldn’t be cross over that.

AryaStarkWolf · 21/01/2020 17:06

He should have cancelled your order when they told him about the lack of drinks, they really couldn't have argued with him, I don't think YABU but maybe he was hangry? :p

Herts6789 · 21/01/2020 19:23

IMO he should have not ordered anything and suggested you go elsewhere. However i know my DP would have ordered my food 'because i wanted it' and done the same thing. I would definitely be cross if he then left me alone though.

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