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Indecisiveness or is it..?

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SparePantsAndLego · 14/01/2020 22:01

I’m on the verge of madness. DH is just so ridiculously indecisive. He claims to be busy but I swear if he just made a decision (and stuck to it) once in a while then he’d be amazed at how much time he’d free up.

I’m not talking big decisions either, the latest agonising is around what we do with a guest who is visiting this weekend.

Guest is super easy but has suggested one thing, this suggestion means DH will need to drive us there. I don’t drive and guest will have had a long drive to get to us.

DH is happy to go there, doesn’t mind driving but is agonising about traffic and procrastinating and has been doing so since Saturday. That’s four days!

It’s driving me bonkers.

I should have procrastinated longer before marrying him. FFS.

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SparePantsAndLego · 15/01/2020 14:08

I’m hoping MNers aren’t procrastinating about replying...

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nowayhose · 15/01/2020 14:28

LOL, you've made me choke on my cuppa ! :)

Maybe you should encourage him to use a tried and true method to making the right decision.................. I'm sure he's got a coin in his pocket :)

Pinkyponker · 15/01/2020 14:42

My husband is like this too. Drives me mad

Wrigleys123 · 15/01/2020 14:43

I love that quote "I used to be indecisive but now I'm not so sure" GrinGrin

Footle · 15/01/2020 15:01

Sounds a bit obvious but it's a manifestation of anxiety

Vulpine · 15/01/2020 15:08

Given that he's the driver and you can't i think hes well within his rights to react how he wants

SparePantsAndLego · 15/01/2020 19:39

I’m not sure a driving license grants free reign on the behaviour front. That said, I’m not certain we’ll make it to the end of the road at this rate.
@Wrigleys123, I’m going to get him a badge made up with that on it... along with some small change, @nowayhose, but which coin to use..?!

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SparePantsAndLego · 15/01/2020 20:36

Ahem, free rein.

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