To be annoyed with OH

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I posted another thread early this morning about dislocating my hip. It subluxed again today, I called 111 and they have told me I should go to A&E ASAP. I don’t drive and can barely walk due to my hip, I messaged OH and he was asking if I could get an Uber (doesn’t cover our area), walk to cash point etc. He doesn’t live with me but lives 10 minutes drive from me, he has now said he can drive me in the morning. AIBU to be annoyed?

Call a cab, explain you'll need to stop at a cash point near the curb and go... Right now!

And tell your OH he is a complete tosser!

It depends, does he have other priorities such as kids, job or healthcare limitations of his own that would make it difficult for him to give you a lift?

If not, and he simply can't be bothered, than YANBU!

Depends what is stopping your OH from giving you a lift tonight.

What's he doing? Is he busy doing childcare or something he can't just drop?

Is he a long term partner?

He’s playing an online campaign with his friends he plays same time every week.

Well now you know how important you are.
Seriously there are much better men out there.

Unless there’s some massive back story where every time he has some time with his mates you need to go to hospital he’s a complete dick.

My OH came back from clearing his late fathers house & got the bus to see me in a&e.

He been travelling half the day, cleaning, meeting relatives for the first time & still reeling from the news just a couple of days before. I’m sure all he wanted to do was climb into the shower & then fall into bed.

He waited with me for hours while I was admitted & got me settled on the ward, went home in the early hours, went to work in the morning & then left early after he’d heard I needed a procedure.

Yadnbu. I’d find another way there to a&e & another OH.
No way I’d be able to stay with him after that!

Your boyfriend is fucking awful. I sincerely hope you dump him immediately. No conversation is needed.

Yup, dump him. He's done you a favour by showing you exactly how much he cares: zero amount.

Your Ex-OH is a complete piece of shit. If he's not your Ex by now you need to give your head a wobble. Sorry Op

I'm afraid is probably about him.