Change in contact order?

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My ex was ordered 2 hours supervised contact every alternate Thursday, this began 2 days ago (9th jan), contact is to be supervised by my mum and any communication is to also go through her, due to DA. She has recieved a text from him this morning asking if contact could be changed to every Thursday, which I have said no to as I think it's too much after no contact for 3 years (he walked out when our son was 1). Our son is autistic so his routine needs to be kept at minimum disruption.

Am i being unreasonable for not agreeing to the change after 1 contact session?

No, yanbu at all. He's pushing boundaries. Hold your ground.

If he wants to vary the order then he needs to go back to court to ask for a variation. He’s trying to push boundaries- he had his opportunity to push for weekly very recently in court.

Hold your ground and stick to the court order

Hi, OP. Just to let you know, we're going to move your thread over to AIBU now.
Thanks.