AIBU in saying if you have a lazy ass DP get them to read this
mustbethistalltoride.com/2016/01/14/she-divorced-me-because-i-left-dishes-by-the-sink/
I’ve seen so many lazy husband threads - ahhh January - so thought it might be of some help. Certainly gave mine a kick up the backside.
Oh and if that doesn’t work... LTB 