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to have enjoyed flirting?

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wheresmymillionaire · 04/01/2020 20:32

I really surprised myself! I was abroad visiting a friend when this guy joins our group (friend of friend). I am in the process of getting my life back on track after a very sad and unhappy marriage . I've just turned 50 so am feeling a bit funny and facing the prospect of a life alone now.
Anyway, I really fancied this guy and I'll never see him again so despite him being 10 years younger than me and married (unhappily) I spent most of the evening flirting with him and it felt great! I feel a bit guilty as I knew he was married, but he could have walked away right? It doesn't make me a bad person does it?

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DartmoorChef · 04/01/2020 20:35

Well hopefully it's made you realise that you aren't facing the prospect of a life alone.

PlanDeRaccordement · 04/01/2020 20:40

My DH and I are fine with the other flirting with other people. Nothing wrong with a bit of mutual shameless flattery when you know it won’t go anywhere. It’s a great boost to the self.
So YANBU, flirting is not cheating.

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