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How much body hair is normal!

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Pop2017 · 02/01/2020 21:00

So not really aibu but posting here for traffic. I have some concerned over increased body hair. Don’t seem to get many replies when I’ve posted things in the health sections.

It’s not extreme. When I google hirsutism I realise my problem isn’t extreme but..

I am 28. I am very fair but have noticed an increase in hairs in different areas and often thicker and darker. I am getting some random dark hairs..

My concerns are :

  1. Dark hairs under my chin towards my neck. I have to pluck them out every couple days. It doesn’t cover a large surface area. It’s like dark hairs amongst blonde hairs.
  1. My blonde upper lip hair seems to have got thicker. Still fair but more noticeable but seem to get the odd dark hair amongst the blonde.
  1. My facial hair has seemed to increase. Still blonde but seems thicker and covers a wider area. It’s gone from peach fuzz to a lot thicker and not able. I have a random patch of dark hair near my ear about the size of a 20p.
  1. I keep getting dark thicker hairs spouting around my breasts. Maybe 5 or 6 around each breast. The hairs are pretty thick and coarse. Also 2 or 3 long dark hairs between my breasts.
  1. Belly hair - again still fair but long and coarse compared to the normal peach fuzz type hair.
  1. Dark hairs on my toes. But I’ve had this for a long time and have shaved particularly during the summer months.
  1. Also random dark hairs around my chin. Maybe only one or two but they grow really bloody fast.

OH insists it is normal (he’s a male, what would he know). I am glad he doesn’t seem to mind.

I want to start removing my upper lip hair at least my Oh tells me not to as he says it will grow back thicker and stubbier and he would rather I keep it as it is.

He is also telling me not to touch my facial hair but I am so paranoid of it when I’m talking to people I am thinking of removing. Again it’s blonde but it’s got thicker. And noticeable particularly in the sunlight.

Am I just over reacting?? Is it normal for a 28 year old female to start noticing extra hairs around the body?!

OP posts:
goose1964 · 02/01/2020 21:04

Cou!d you have PCOS? At your age it's more likely than perimenopause. It's worth seeing your gp about it .

Pop2017 · 02/01/2020 21:06

I mentioned the hair to the doctor when I visited for another problem recently. He didn’t seem concerned. I don’t really have any other signs if PCOS so not sure how likely it would be?

OP posts:
newyearnewnameagain · 02/01/2020 22:25

Sounds normal i'm fair and pluck out any chin, neck, boob stray dark hairs every few days. I don't think I have PCOS and I'm not overweight ( well I'm pregnant at the mo)

newyearnewnameagain · 02/01/2020 22:26

Thick peach fuzz can happen if you're underweight though.

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