I am a sahm to my pfb and am constantly getting advice in the form of. I didn't do that with mine. Why don't you try blah blah. This is all from mil (who constantly critisises her own kids) and randomers who feel the need to chip in. I have not asked for advice. My pfb is perfectly healthy and doing well and is very loved, always laughing. As far as I was aware there are guidelines which change all the time, so any advice these people have is usually massively outdated. I was gonna make all homemade healthy food but will admit I now have chicken nuggets and such in the freezer. Aibu in thinking I'm doing what most first time mums do and I'm just winging it.