Husband has been away lots recently including all of October and November. Since he came home on Dec 22 he hasn't drank.
Tonight he was meeting up with an old friend he hasn't seen for a while.
All their friends are working today and DH and Friend are on Christmas Leave. Both high up in the military so obviously have seen some shit.
Said he will be back about 12. Walks in at 3.40 asking me for money. I said I don't have anything. He asks for my bank card. Says he's lost his. Takes my bank card. Black cab outside waiting about ten min. Goes back out. Leaves his key on the table. So I know I'll have to let him back in. 15 min later comes back shuts door. Talks crap. Asks for my bank pin. Which he's always known. Says sorry. Goes back in cab. 20 minutes later I phone him he's in McDonald's. He's just walked in now. Didn't knock so must have left the door literally open as we have a Yale lock.
I just can't imagine getting into this situation. He's not even said if or what other drama he's had tonight and where he had been.
He can never have a "normal night"