To ask how you get over finishing with someone?

[TotallyDoneWithThis]

I finished with someone I love dearly last night/this morning. It was all down to a lack of respect for me and for the lack of boundaries for his ex (the mother of his child) who we can’t have a single date without her texting about something amongst loads of other things. I’ve done a pp on it. Anyway, my heart really feels like it’s broken. Dramatic I know but true. Can’t stop crying. How do I get over this? I truly love him despite everything.

So sorry to hear this! It’s never easy and can be so tough, especially when there’s love but the relationship has broken down.

My best advice is to take it easy on yourself, know what’s best for you and find something to distract yourself. If he was unable to respect your boundaries then you’ve made the right call. It’s still so fresh that it is completely normal. You will feel different in a few days, few weeks and months. I wouldn’t rush into another relationship and just allow yourself to heal!

It is so very new and fresh. Everyone says it but it is true - time is a great healer.