AIBU to think dp is a bit of a dick?
We have 4dc and I feel he has expected I always serve him.
If I take the dc out and come back I still have unpacking to do then cooking.if he takes the kids out when he comes back he just pass them to me to sort them and he disappears as he has to sit down. Today we all went out. When we came back he sat down and went on his phone while I went to feed ds. After i fed him, I realised I was hungry so decided that i will eat the bit of food left from yesterday but didn't prepare dp food as 1 assumed as he sat down he wasn't desperate for food.2, the leftover wasn't enough for 2
As soon as i sat down he appeared and questioned why I had not made his lunch as I was making my own. I explained that I'm eating the left over from the night before and there was no more and since he was doing nothing while I was feeding ds I assumed he wasn't bothered so he went into a meltdown about how he would offer if he was making it except he never does as he sits there on his phone until I eventually start making something at which point he appears saying "are you making lunch?"
This I would be fine with during the week as he works and I'm at home however he has been off for a 1 and will be for another so i feel he should be able to do chores he doesn't usually.
Am I being unreasonable?